Good evening for all good readers,
It's been a while since my last post. Tonight i want to share about this magical thing called love. Just recently a friend of mine held a wedding party. It's really mysterious to know how the love can find us. Many of my friends have gotten married already... seems like love found them so quickly. Well, i'm not counted. I wonder if i already forget how to accept love.
So, what's so magical of love besides you will never know when it comes to you? It can change you. Your mind, your heart, your feeling, even your body. Love works in indescribable ways. Some scientists, psychologists, professors, or any of related experts may have some theories about how the hormone of love affected our brain and such but can we really put it into an acceptable essay?
The truth is love is so complicated yet so simple. How can that be? Love can make a weak man become stronger and vise versa. Love can make us see what we couldn't see, hear what we couldn't hear, and do what we've never done before. Some article even said that love can bring a dead mom come to life
Then, when someday love come to you just remember that love not comes everyday, for some people love even comes once in a life time. You might not realize it at first but that's okay because love always finds it's way. You may also ignore it due to fear of unrequited love or not confident enough to fight for it. Well, if you ever encounter such situation you must remember that love is more that worth it to fight for and you should never ashamed of love. And there are also conditions when you can't have the one you love, that's also okay because you still carry your love on for that one. Though it may be too painful but once you throw away that feeling you'll become empty. #yeah, i know how that feel
Can love turn into hate? I guess, it's true when you have some unrequited love it may arouse hatred. But ask your self, can you really hate him/her? No, you still love him/her that's why you have your anger and pain. But there's a possibility you may love somebody else.
I believe love exist to bring happiness to begin with. Only a cowardly action can turn it into sadness.
There are several opinions about good love and bad love. Although, I think we can not judge love whether it's good or not. We can only judge whether our actions to love is right or wrong. Since love is so special we also need to be more and more careful to treat it. True love can be earned only by honorable ways.
By the way, when i talk about love, there is something that comes to my mind. A marriage.
Marriage is an upper stage of love. I'm one of the people who believe that we should not do things like most of couples do nowadays before they are married. If you ask me why? The answer is because a marriage is like a line of what a true couple can do and what they should not do. Marriage not only makes a couple relationship acceptable legally but also it's like an unseen bound between the couple. In my point of view, if a couple do something like kissing or even sex before their marriage then why should they be bothered to have a marriage at the first place.
There is someone who asked me "But then how do we know that he/she love us when we don't kiss or have sex?" The answer is.. of course it's a marriage. Will you marry someone who does not love you? Will you want to bound with loveless? Everyone knows that a marriage is a holy promise between two people who only be bounded with love. We should not play with it. "But then how if after a marriage i found that she/he doesn't love me?" Well, even a couple who love each other can divorce. But i guess we should start a marriage with trust, shouldn't we? If we can't trust our love then why we force our self to be married? We marry not to have fun but to have responsibility.
For those who have different point of view of mind, i have no mean to offend you. It's just i have my own opinion of this matter.
Okay, and finally for the closing i just want to say that
"Love is when you can accept all the weaknesses and see it equally as the advantages. And the most important thing is that you should not play with love or it will crush you. Love like a spell. It can be a great luck or a even a curse whether how you earn it. Just be careful with it... and karma."
Thank you for reading this, and have a good night ^^
