Loneliness is something that will follow the living till their end. Loneliness is like the dark side of the living that can be the reason to do what we're doing. For some introvert people loneliness is the nightmare that happen not only in their dreams but also their reality. Loneliness become their company whether they want it or not. Now, psychologists and experts often talk about this what they call a kind of psychological condition. According to Wikipedia,
Loneliness is a complex and usually unpleasant emotional response to isolation or lack of companionship. Loneliness typically includes anxious feelings about a lack of connection or communication with other beings, both in the present and extending into the future. As such, loneliness can be felt even when surrounded by other people. The causes of loneliness are varied and include social, mental, emotional or even physical factors.
But according to my view, Loneliness is some fear that will block all the possibility to be happy. In some positive way of thinking, loneliness can make people keep in touch with each other, being open, and come closer. And in other hand, there are also people who think that loneliness is the worst thing of all so the choose to leave their life. As the one who face loneliness everyday, i should have found a way to fight it. I do, some times, when i'm lucky enough to find a reason not to be lonely.
I think the best way to get away from our loneliness is to ask to our self, "why?"
Why exactly that we're feeling so lonely all this time? Then the answers will come like a waterfall along with the memories we have.
- I'm afraid to be rejected
- I don't have enough courage to face people
- I think i'm worse than other people
- No body could understand me
- I think we don't have similarity
- I think i'm different
- I'm too busy to socialize
- I'm better than all those people so why should i go with them?
So, is there at least one that match your reason?
Then please re-think of it. Is that reason just an excuse? Don't you think that your memories have tricked you? Are you sure that you don't have good memories with someone? Maybe you just forget how not to be lonely. Try to re-remember and step out of your small room and find a bigger one. Just a little hope is enough. Feed it with reasons why you don't have to be lonely. There are billions people on earth. There are billions difference personalities. And there are billions possibilities to meet a new friend, a new love, and a new life. You may need a courage to face it all. And when you already found it, you may need more than a courage to keep it, to protect it, to never let it go, and to let go when it has to be. So, i think life is busier that we thought... I guess there's no time to hesitate... We need to live and we deserve to be happy.
